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Keep anxiety from impacting you every day

Helpful Tips For The Fight Against Anxiety

Even everyday tasks, such as getting ready for school or work, can be an ordeal if you suffer from anxiety. You may excuse yourself from every social invitation you find. This can cause you to feel alone, luckily you can get help with this article.

In order to manage anxiety effectively, keep daily stresses in check. When stress levels increase, anxiety levels also tend to increase. Learn to do tasks at an easier pace so that you’re not so stressed out all the time. Also, make sure that you get plenty of time to unwind and decompress each day.

To keep anxiety from impacting you every day, add enough exercise into your schedule to release pent-up worries. Exercise creates endorphins, which increase positive feelings and keep you from thinking of negative things. Additionally, experts recommend physical activity to maintain your general health and well-being.

Share your most significant fear with a confidant, and make an effort to exaggerate its importance when you do. After repeating the exaggerated story a few times you may start to see your fear as being unreal and/or silly.

Self discipline allows you to better control your emotions. Gaining control of your emotions will enable you to better control your anxiety attacks. Negative emotions will only amplify your feelings of anxiety. Learn how to detach emotions a bit from your life and things will improve.

Salt cravings can increase when you become anxious; keep this in mind. That is because the body may be telling you to have more salt to satisfy its sodium requirements. The best salt to get is the kind that is unprocessed and raw. This is easier for the body to get digested and allows it to take in more minerals.

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Dealing with llliness- through meditation

Nature itself gives a cure to these sicknesses. Wellbeing and sickness are a piece of physical nature. By practicing meditation, the burdens, stresses, tensions drop off and offers ascend to a positive perspective, which positively affects the physical body, brain and nervous system, then illnesses change.

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You could be causing more damage than you realize

A Parent’s Guide to Patience

A Parent’s Guide to Patience


Children can be annoying. They like to play games that adults don’t enjoy. When is the last time you wanted to play with dolls, climb a tree, or ride your bike up and down the cul-de-sac? They’re loud. They complain. They know how to push your buttons.

Children can be a great source of frustration. They’re also a great source of joy.

You can embrace the joy and show your unconditional love with patience. After all, they depend on you to teach them how to best get along in this world. Why not exemplify patience and give them a gift they’ll never outgrow?

Be a more patient parent with these strategies:

  1. Understand your trigger points. When are you most likely to be unreasonably impatient? Is it at bedtime? After a hard day at work
  • Make a list of your trigger points and keep it handy.
  • Is there anything you can do to change the situation? Maybe you could listen to relaxing music on the ride home after a long day. Could you alter your children’s bedtime routine?
  1. Where does the challenge lie? You’ve seen wonderful children with impatient parents and misbehaving children with incredibly patient parents. Neither situation is ideal. How well do your children behave? It’s not easy to assess our own kids accurately.
  • Ask the most reasonable person you know whether they consider you to be a patient or impatient person. Then ask them how well they think your children behave. Ask them to be completely honest.
  • Put your attention where it will be most productive. You’re not doing yourself, your children, or the rest of society any favors if you tolerate poor behavior from your children.
  1. Visualize yourself being patient in challenging situations. Use your list of situations that try your patience the most and imagine yourself dealing with those situations calmly and effectively. When you’re faced with the real situation, you’ll have a better chance of dealing with it appropriately.
  2. Be patient with yourself. Everyone is impatient at times. We aren’t static. This is good news because it means we can change. Accept that you’re only human and that you’ll have the occasional bad day.
  3. Pause before you act or speak. The greatest damage occurs when you fail to take a moment before making a decision. You can save yourself a lot of grief if you’ll take a minute to pause when you’re upset. Take 10 deep breaths, regain your composure, and then make your decision.
  4. Give yourself a timeout. If you’re unable to find a peaceful mental place, take 15 minutes. When you’re upset, you lose the ability to make intelligent decisions. If no one is bleeding or on fire, they’ll survive for 15 minutes while you collect yourself.
  5. Consider the perspective of your child. Children have little power or control over their lives. You’re holding all the cards. When you act in a way that’s frightening or unreasonable, your child can’t trust you. What could be more frightening? You could be causing more damage than you realize.
  • On the other hand, children are also quite resilient and forgiving. You don’t have to be perfect, but it’s important to be reasonable. Your children deserve it.

If you’re impatient with your children, you’re not alone. Children can be a challenge to your ability to remain calm, cool, and collected. However, you can change. You can become a more patient parent. Enhance your ability to deal with frustration and prevent frustration from occurring with these tips you can use every day.

Remember That You Have More Options Than You Realize

Remember That You Have More Options Than You Realize

Life isn’t always easy. We’ve all faced some tough times. However, the way you handle difficult situations can make a big difference.

Many of us make life even more difficult by handling our challenges poorly. This creates additional issues that require time and energy to rectify. How you handle trying times says a lot about you. Others notice. Will you let these times bring out the worst in you or the best in you?

Make it easier on yourself and get through difficult times wisely with these easy strategies:

  1. Strategies to Help You Get Through Difficult Times. Part of what makes challenging times challenging is the belief that you have no options. Feeling powerless isn’t pleasant. Remind yourself that you still have choices. How you choose to handle the trying situation is one of those choices.
  2. Pay attention to all of the things that are still good in your life. You may have lost your job, but you still have your health and your family. Maybe you’re getting divorced, but you still have your friends, job, health, and your children.
  • What was the best thing that happened to you last year? Who is most important to you? Make a list of at least 20 positive things in your life and then notice how much better you feel. This will help you to relax and cope.
  • If you focus on the one thing that isn’t working, you’ll only succeed in making yourself more miserable.
  1. Look for solutions. Focusing on your difficulty is natural, but ineffective. In fact, it only saps your resources. Decide that you’re going to find a viable solution. It doesn’t have to be the perfect solution. Just a decent solution. Give yourself the time you need to brainstorm, but avoid taking longer than necessary.
  2. Begin implementing your solution. For example, if you’ve lost your job, your solution might include several steps:
  • Update resume.
  • Create accounts and profiles on five job boards, such as LinkedIn and
  • Contact at least five headhunters in my field of employment.
  • Contact everyone I know and let them know that I’m looking for a job.
  • Update my social media accounts to show that I’m looking for work.
  1. Keep a smile on your face. You don’t feel like smiling, but do it anyway. It will make you feel better and let others know that you’re okay. If you want to handle a challenging time gracefully, smiling is mandatory.
  2. Continue to take care of others in your life. Your family and friends still need you. You may have to reduce your care and attention a little, but don’t crawl into yourself and ignore everyone else in the world. You’ll feel better about yourself if you’re still taking care of the important people in your life.
  3. Release your anxiety. You can feel your anxiety in your body. It’s located in a specific location, most often your stomach or chest. Imagine opening up a door in that location and letting it all out. Continue releasing it until it’s all gone.
  4. Thank everyone when the crisis is solved. Let everyone know that you appreciate their love and support. You’ll be even more likely to get the same support the next time something goes wrong.

It’s not a matter of whether or not you’ll face difficult times. It’s only a matter of when. Since challenging times are inevitable, why not deal with them effectively and gracefully? It will say a lot about your character, others will respect you, and you’ll come out on the other side quicker and less bruised.

Niji No Hashi Dojo- Martial Arts, Cary, Morrisville, NC

Being Initiative Will Turn You Into The Leader


The vast majority of people spend more energy arranging their grocery shopping for food than outlining their future. The essential contrast between individuals who experience their fantasies and the individuals who just dream about how they would live is the exactness of their plans, their capacity to produce new thoughts, and their capacity to take action

The Advantages of Being a Skillful Leader

Your leadership abilities don’t just benefit your employer. Your ability to lead others can enhance your life in many ways. Even if you don’t currently hold a leadership position at work, there are many reasons to begin strengthening your leadership skills today.

Consider these advantages of being a skilled leader:

1. You’remorevaluabletoyouremployer. Employees can be trained to perform most work tasks quickly and easily. It’s much rarer to find someone with the skills to lead a large group of people to complete a complex task.

‣ If you’re an effective leader, you can do things for your employer that few other employees can do.

‣ The further up the chain you travel, the more important leadership skills become. Increasing your leadership skills can pave the way to both a promotion and a salary increase.

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The reality about ego

How many types of ego are there? Some philosophers have defined as many as seven types

The reality about ego


You can still be successful and achieve great things, but you’ll do them for positive reasons, and not because you need to affirm your identity to yourself or to impress someone else.
Evaluate your current ego situation and decide if a change is in order. Have confidence in yourself, while avoiding the need to show off. Practice this each day, and soon enough, you’ll feel the joys of a freedom that you didn’t know existed.

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The Primary Causes of Mental Clutter


There are certain people that are hard to eliminate from your life.

Your children are one example. No matter how old your children may be, the bond between parent and child is strong. However, there are situations that can justify eliminating adult children or your parents from your life. Not everyone has a place in your life.
Your life is sacred. Be careful whom you choose to include.
It’s rare to have people that truly want to see you excel. However, that’s no reason to tolerate those who intentionally become obstacles in your life.

Consider how much the people in your life add and detract from it:

Whichpeopleareasourceofnegativity?  These people aren’t negative about your life. They’re negative about life in general. These are the people that are pessimistic, complain about everything, and suck the life out of you every time you see them. Ask yourself why you keep them around.

Consider the toxic people in your life. Toxic people get in your way. They’re the people that get in the way of you reaching your goals. They’re discouraging and sabotaging. For some reason, they feel better if you don’t better yourself.

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Always use diligence when shopping

Buyer Beware


It’s important to be aware of these new risks and know how to protect yourself if you become a target of credit card fraud, identity theft, scams, or harassment from debt collectors. Never make purchases or access your accounts via public Wi- Fi networks. It is important to be aware of the signs of possible identity theft so you can catch the crime early on and take action to stop any further damage.

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Taking part in Reiki can increase your feelings

What is Reiki and How can it Heighten Your Self-Development?


An integral aspect of the human experience is striving to develop and improve yourself however you can. Although you may have heard of Reiki, you might not realize how you can raise your own level of development upon undergoing Reiki treatments.

What is Reiki?

Reiki is an ancient art of healing first practiced in 1922 by Mikao Usui, a Japanese Buddhist. The practice eventually spread to the western world and morphed into what is known as “Western Reiki” techniques.

Here are some informative facts about Reiki:

  1. Western Reiki includes 5-7 hand positions used by Reiki practitioners. These hand positions are used to affect the recipient’s “chakras” or “meridians,” locations of theoretical sacred energy reserves found throughout the body’s surface.
  • The practitioner poses his hands in the hand positions near where the body’s energies are regulated to promote wellness and healing.
  1. The Reiki practitioner might place his hands lightly on the body at the chakra points. He might look at the chakra point or even gently massage the chakra location in hopes of transferring energy to the recipient. Light tapping near the meridians or the practitioner blowing out air from the mouth might also be part of a Reiki treatment.
  2. Some Reiki practitioners do not touch the recipient. Instead, they place their hands a few centimeters above the body’s surface to re-position the chakras’ energy.
  3. The Reiki practitioner believes he is providing energy called, “ki,” through his palms. This is to balance the receiver’s body energies.
  4. Although Reiki is an ancient practice, it isn’t supported by science. Research on Reiki has consistently come up with no real evidence of the “life force,” or ki, or how it can impact the individual, positively or otherwise.

How Does Reiki Heighten Self-Development?

Because Reiki isn’t scientifically proven, you might be wondering how it could actually help you in your quest for deepened self-development.

Consider these points:

  1. Undergoing Reiki allows you to relax. During Reiki you’re laying down quietly, usually on a masseuse’s table. You’ll likely be relaxed throughout the process, lessening stress.
  2. Taking part in Reiki is a unique experience. There are few other experiences that are similar to having Reiki done. In a sense, it will expand your mind to take part in Reiki—it’s a new and different experience. Reiki might even peak your interest in the healing arts.
  3. Suggestion is powerful. When Reiki practitioners deliver their treatment methods, they’ll likely make certain suggestions about balancing your chakras and meridians. Because you’ll be so relaxed at the time, it’s possible that you’ll take in the suggestions and do what’s necessary to feel better. You might become more open to acting on helpful suggestions.
  4. Taking part in Reiki can increase your feelings of well-being. Although the effects of Reiki haven’t been proven, when you do anything to feel better, it can be helpful because you’re giving attention to the troubling issue. In this case, undergoing Reiki may be a means to an end.

Reiki is a fascinating healing art that could peak your interest and heighten your self-improvement. There are times in life when it’s refreshing to try something new, different, and a bit unusual. You’ll relax, have a unique experience, and increase your well-being.

Open your mind to this unique healing art form that just might be your cup of tea for strengthened health and increased self-development.

Niji No Hashi Dojo Cary, North Carolina

Bring Reading Books Back Into Your Life

Bring the Joy of Reading Books Back Into Your Life

12 books for October

Niji No Hashi Dojo Recommend Books

Simple Ways to Overcome Boredom

Sculpture the mind the same way you want to sculpture your body.
It’s almost the same as sculpturing a statue for rock it would take at least 16 months
So starts sculpturing your mind read

Everyone at one time or another has experienced some degree of boredom. Children are usually the quickest to say “I’m bored,” but as adults, we experience our share, too.

Don’t you sometimes wonder why you feel bored? It may be a feeling of laziness, exhaustion, or even a lack of mental stimulation.

Whatever the case may be, we all want to keep our mind and body at its peak. We also want to be an active player in our own lives. When we’re feeling bored, neither of these needs is being met.

However, with a bit of creativity, there’s no reason why you ever need to experience boredom!

Here are some simple suggestions to help you conquer boredom and liven things up:

Read. This sounds rather obvious, doesn’t it? Well, it is! But it’s often the simplest ideas that are the most powerful.

Reading is a wonderful activity for the mind that can transport you to another time, place or situation. With so many genres to choose from, reading can be most interesting and even intoxicating.

Cultivate your mind. Boredom is something we allow and hold control over. By actively using our mind, boredom won’t be a concern again. Try expanding and cultivating your mind by taking a day trip to a museum, going to an art exhibit, or seeing a play.

If you’ve never been an avid reader, it’s possible that you simply haven’t found the right book. Experiment until you find the one that gets you hooked. You can also explore audiobooks and podcasts to keep your mind busy.

No one enjoys being bored, but thankfully there are countless ways to overcome boredom and get your mind and body active again. Use these tips to get you started, and enjoy a myriad of wonderful benefits in the process

Create the time to read. It might be 20 minutes before bed or during your lunch hour. We feel like we don’t have the time because we over-schedule our lives, watch too much TV, and spend too much time surfing the Internet.

Let go of some of that stuff and read instead. Make reading a habit by doing it regularly. When you’re reading, only read. This isn’t a time for one eye on the book and the other eye on the television set. If you’re going to get the most out of it, then really commit to what you’re doing.

Just read during your reading time. Avoid thinking that you must finish every book you start. We have to suffer through some things in our lives that are less than exciting, but your books don’t have to be one of those things

12 books for October













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True Martial Art

 Niji No Hashi Dojo Cary, North Carolina